Leading Edge – Volume 65 – 3 Keys: Time Management

The Care and Feeding of Your Leader

An Aegis Learning Customer

Your Leader May Crave the Same Things You Crave

By Tim Schneider

Over the years of leadership development and organizational development work, we have seen our fair share of bad leaders. In the same breath, we have not seen many that were purposefully bad; that set a predetermined course to do the wrong thing and treat people badly.

Equally often, we have been asked for advice on how to manage someone’s boss or supervisor. Agreeing that the competencies we provide work smashingly on subordinate team members but really can’t be applied upwardly in an organization.

With full disclosure, this will not help you today if you have a bad boss or a disconnected relationship with your supervisor. These strategies are designed for long-term success and proactively creating a great connection between you and your leader.

Leaders Are Human

The same emotions, distractions, events and life that impact you, impact them. Hopefully, most leaders have a pretty high level of emotional intelligence to help them deal with these events and to control their reactions but at the end of the day, they are every bit as fragile of a human as you. They may project tough but the reality is usually different.

Understanding and even inquiring about how your leader is doing can be a powerful reminder of his or her humanity.

Empathy Goes a Long Way

The best evolution from understanding moves to empathy.

Empathy is a bridge between the emotional state of one person to another. To empathize with your leader, you must try to feel what he or she is going through. Is there a lot of pressure? Is something going on at home? Are they being micromanaged?

If you know what that feels like, you can be empathetic.

Saying you understand or saying you’re sorry for what your leader is experiencing is a strong statement of empathy.

Appreciation and Positive Feedback

When was the last time you thanked your leader? Told him or her they were doing a good job? You appreciated his or her efforts in supporting you?

If you can’t remember the answer to those questions, it may be time to share some appreciation and positive feedback.

Make the assumption that they don’t hear much and also don’t get stuck on if you hear it from your leader or not. Just express appreciation and your genuine praise of his or her efforts.

Your Priorities and Your Leader’s Priorities

There is a high likelihood your leader manages more than just you. Your priorities and needs then have to be triaged with the needs and priorities of others. Please don’t assume you are the center of your leader’s universe. He or she is balancing service to many people and organizational elements.

Here again, a little understanding and empathy will go a long way.

Encouragement

We have yet to find the bold S in a blue chevron under the shirt of any leader. They are not superhuman and will wear down, get tired and simply be subject to burnout. Like with praise and appreciation, sharing a bit of upward encouragement can be very powerful for everyone involved.

As much as we cannot manage our leader, we do have some significant tools available to influence the health of this relationship over the long haul.

Tim Schneider

Tim Schneider is the founder of Aegis Learning and has been working with teams and leaders for 25 years.   He generates results, impact and his sole focus is your success.

He is the author of The Ten Competencies of Outstanding Leadership and Beyond Engagement and a widely sought speaker, training facilitator and individual development coach.

Leading Edge – Volume 64 – 3 Keys: Seeking Input from Others

Striking the Leadership Balance

By Linda Florence

Organizations are dynamic in nature with constantly shifting priorities in a fast-paced business environment. The culture adapts to meet ever changing demands to ensure the business remains viable and even thrives. Despite continuous innovations in new technologies, organizations consist of individuals with a shared mission. The primary difference between the success and failure of any organization comes down to one common denominator; and that is, leadership.

The lines between work and personal life are increasingly blurred; separating work and life outside of work is increasingly difficult. It is not possible to be two entirely different people, one at work and one at home. We often hear the term ‘work-life balance’ as a successful leadership trait, and some organizations tout promoting this as part of its culture. What does that ‘balance’ really mean? Leadership is a choice, not a position. We cannot have one philosophy at work and a different perspective on life at home, with our friends and family. Successful leaders understand their role is to serve others.

To strike that so called ‘balance,’ leaders must have a consistent approach to all interactions both at home and at work. Leadership balance and engagement result in part, in increased career satisfaction and reduced stress. Given that employee engagement equates with business success, the employer naturally benefits from individual leaders who strive for balance. An engaged workforce is more productive than one that is disconnected from the organization.

Striking this balance refers to being in sync with yourself and living your purpose, regardless of your role; this includes being engaged in the industry, invested in the organization and helping others to success. It is not necessary to be in a formal leadership role to act consistent with serving others.

The culture of an organization reflects this leadership philosophy. Organizations that promote balance through leadership and engagement leads to higher levels of career satisfaction and overall individual well-being, which ultimately benefits the entity.

Linda F. Florence is a talented and dynamic instructor specializing in human resource management issues including hiring, disciplinary practices, policies, compensation and retention strategies. She has over 20 years of senior management level experience in the hospitality, financial services, retail and higher education.

Leading Edge – Volume 63 – 3 Keys: Self-Awareness

Three Artistic Proofs To Drive Continuous Improvement

By Polly Walker

In my 25-year career, I have facilitated or been involved with approximately 80 process improvements. These projects ranged from small, quick fixes in one section or business unit all the way up to complex, multi-department systems improvements. Even though the size and scope of the process problem and solutions varies greatly from project to project, there is a technique I use that ensures the engagement of the workgroup, the buy-in of team members and management and, ultimately, the success of the project.

Almost all of us have heard of Aristotle, the famous Greek philosopher. Among his accomplishments was coining the term “the three artistic proofs”, or Ethos, Pathos and Logos. If you have heard these terms, they are relevant to giving a great speech or effectively persuading an audience. For each of the three artistic proofs, I will provide a short definition and then outline how that technique is key to an effective process improvement project.

Ethos: Credibility or character driven by using language that is appropriate for the audience or topic.

As the leader (a facilitator, a project sponsor, etc.) involved with the process improvement, you want to use language that is appropriate for the team, the project sponsor and all audiences involved with the process improvement. You will want to adjust the technicality or the complexity of the language based on your audience. For example, the work group itself should be mainly comprised of the subject matter experts so when speaking with them or presenting results, use their technical language and acronyms. On the other hand, if you are explaining the process improvement recommendations to an executive leadership team you will want to adjust the language to simpler, higher level language.

Pathos: Emotional appeal, inspiring action by sharing experience.

Emotional appeal is also a critical skill for managing the project. You should be able to explain (by appealing to the emotions of the audience) how the process problem impacts both the team members and the customers. Additionally, as the facilitator you should be working to build relationships with and among your work group as you move forward with the process improvement project. Relationships and emotion are key to building consensus and moving quickly through the four stages of a team (forming, storming, norming and performing) not only during the process improvement but after the project is done and the team members are implementing the changes.

Logos: Appealing to logic, convincing the audience by using reason, citing facts.

Gathering and citing facts is key to your process improvement project. You need to have the relevant data and information on the process issues to ensure team buy in and share the depth and breadth of the problem. This is especially important if there is denial that there is even actually a problem. Additionally, data gathered before, after, and during the project to show if the changes worked is also critically important.

Even though the size and scope of the process problem and solutions varies greatly from project to project, the “three artistic proofs” (Ethos, Pathos and Logos) can help ensure the effectiveness and success of any process improvement project.

Polly Walker’s areas of focus include leadership development, quality management, customer service, team member engagement and process improvement. She is an engaging and experienced facilitator, team builder, trainer, and change manager. She holds an Operational Excellence Certification from the University of Nevada Las Vegas, a Quality Improvement Associate (CQIA) certification from the American Society for Quality (ASQ), a Lean Six Sigma Black Belt, and is on the Board of Examiners for the Southwest Alliance for Excellence.

Leading Edge – Volume 62 – 3 Keys: Corrective Feedback

Five Ways to Build a Positive Working Environment

By Matt Zobrist

A positive work environment is one where team members are happy and engaged with each other and in their work. Positivity at work leads to increased trust, better performance, and improved results. The following are five things any leader, or any person for that matter, can do immediately to generate and improve the positive atmosphere in your workplace. They do not require training; rather they are extremely intuitive, but their value is often overlooked. The true benefit of these practices becomes evident as they are implemented consistently.

Practice gratitude.

One of the easiest ways in which you can increase the positivity of your work environment is through the simple expressions of appreciation. The key to showing gratitude is sincerity. Making others feel appreciated through sincere daily affirmations of gratitude can go a long way to building trust as establishing harmony amongst team members. Being grateful is contagious – next time you tell someone how truly grateful you are for something they did, watch how they will be more willing to reciprocate to others.

Gratitude, however, is not a one-way street. Feeling grateful for things in your own life is very important as well. Personal gratitude is being able to look at yourself and honestly appreciate your skills, abilities, successes as well as your hardships and failures (learning opportunities).

Be Optimistic.

Collin Powell said, “Optimism is a force multiplier.” Optimism is being confidently hopeful about the future. By conveying, through your words and actions, that you totally believe in the immediate and future success of your team, you will foster positive attitudes within you team members. Make daily optimistic statements that you are confident in your team members’ abilities and skills. Always see the glass as half-full. A pessimistic leader is a sure way to stifle positivity in the team.

Smile.

Smiling is a powerful way to increase the positivity of your team. Studies have shown that smiling not only effects those around you, but it impacts you! Ever noticed that when someone smiles at you, you can’t help but smile back? Smiles are infectious because there is an unconscious drive among humans to mirror the facial expressions of those around us. Add to that the physiological effects of smiling in the human brain (releases feel-good neurotransmitters: serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins), and you can see why smiling can improve happiness in yourself and team. Happy people are more positive. Start each morning by smiling at yourself in the mirror, and make sure your first contact with each team member you wear a smile!

Laugh.

The power of laughter is amazing. It naturally lightens moods and increases our spirits because it releases endorphins, which increase our state of happiness. Laughing, like smiling, is contagious and it makes everyone involved feel better. Laughing decreases stress and physical tension, it is also said to be healthy for your heart and immune system. Comedian and cancer survivor Steve Mazan says: “the true power of laughter is that it allows us to forget, for a brief time, all the things that weigh us down.” That momentary escape gives us an opportunity to “push the reset” button on our attitude. After laughing, we can have a new, more positive perspective to refocus and tackle our objectives with confidence.

Sincerity.

Sincerity is acting without deceit, pretense or hypocrisy. Sincerity is a necessary part of the four preceding points. Sincerity is when your tone and nonverbal signals consistently match your verbal message. Your facial expressions and body language will alert people if you are being sincere. Sincerity is what makes the difference between your spoken “thank you” being perceived as true appreciation or taken as a platitude. Without sincerity, your optimistic statements may be perceived as being cliché, instead of inspiring.
Likely you are doing some of these things already. The key to boosting the positivity in your workplace is to do all of them sincerely and consistently. Starting each day with a smile, being truly appreciative, demonstrating optimism, and taking time to laugh, are all things, increase positivity in your workplace.

Did you catch the subtle head-fake? The more you practice and implement these strategies consistently, YOU will be the most affected! As you act more positive, your own perceptions of your environment will become more positive! You will become happier, more engaged and more productive. Even if no one else does these things, as you consistently do them, you will become a beacon of positivity because the reality of your environment will have become more positive. People who have a positive environment are able to increase productivity, efficiency and engagement.

Matt Zobrist from Aegis Learning

Matt Zobrist is an energetic and dynamic facilitator, coach, presenter and speaker with Aegis Learning, LLC.

Matt has a passion for helping others develop their leadership skills. His animated, high-energy style, combined with humor and personal experiences make each presentation enjoyable and memorable, as well as educational, for the audience.

Leading Edge – Volume 61 – 3 Keys: Workplace Tone

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